In 2011, the country music world was in a frenzy after the marriage of singers Blake Shelton and Miranda Lambert. They seemed to have the perfect marriage, the perfect life together, and they were complete “couple goals” to many people.
Then, only four years later, the two divorced. Not too long after their split, Shelton began seeing Gwen Stefani, and Lambert was cozying up to other people, too. But when the country star found out Shelton and his The Voice co-host were serious, she had more than a few feelings about the matter.
Blake And Miranda Seemed To Have A Fairytale Relationship
Before the two country singers’ very public split in 2015, fans thought the two were going to go the distance and not become another Hollywood breakup story. Honestly, it made sense, since Blake Shelton and Miranda Lambert seemed perfect for one another.
But nothing is as it seems, and the “loving couple” facade they had for the press was obviously not the truth. Needless to say, at the end of the day, the two just weren’t compatible.
Their Personalities Couldn’t Have Been More Different
While Shelton and Lambert seemed to be in love when they first got together, it was obvious the two didn’t really have the same personalities. The differences became blatant when Shelton was joking around with his new co-hosts on The Voice.
Lambert, on the other hand, was way more serious, career-driven, and didn’t know how to have fun… the opposite of her husband. During an interview, she said, “Blake’s the happiest person on the planet. He pulls me out of my darkness.”
They Were Apart For Long Periods Of Time
When it comes to any celebrity couple, being apart for long periods of time comes with the territory. So, it really shouldn’t have come to much of a surprise to Shelton and Lambert when they started drifting from one another due to their hectic touring schedules
Even so, Lambert thought that distance would make “the heart grow fonder.” But Shelton kept accepting jobs, and they were never at home together, putting a huge strain on their relationship.
Was A Baby On The Way?
Two years into their marriage, rumors started to spread that a little country baby was on the way. Maybe it was what the two needed to fix their marriage and communication with one another.
During an interview, Shelton said, they didn’t “have any plans on it. That’s kinda how we live our life. If it happens one day, then it happens, and we’re not trying to make it happen or avoid it.” The cryptic answer made people think he didn’t want kids with his wife.
Tabloids, Gossip, And More Rumors
As if the child rumors weren’t enough on top of the already rocky relationship of Shelton and Lambert, then came the tabloid gossip. The two were appearing in headlines, which were accusing Shelton of being unfaithful.
Ironically, the couple was surprised. They never made headlines! In interviews, they joked that they were happy the tabloids thought they were interesting enough to spin a web of lies about. And while Shelton wasn’t worried, Lambert’s parents had a few things to say.
Divorce Is Not An Option
After the rumor mill started churning, Lambert’s mother decided it was time to talk to her daughter about the status of her and Shelton’s relationship. According to Lambert, “My mom said to my dad, ‘Divorce is not an option.'”
As Lambert comes from a traditional Southern family, the statement makes sense. But there are just some things that are too broken to be fixed, something the two country stars figured out not too long after the tabloids ran.
Parting Ways Four Years After Saying “I Do”
Four years down the road and everything fell apart for Shelton and Lambert. The two couldn’t find common ground and ultimately decided divorce was the way to go. And we know we’re saying that pretty matter-of-factly, considering the breakup was very messy and public.
After the split, people couldn’t help question if someone came between the two country stars—someone that happened to be in the music scene, Shelton’s co-host, stunning, and fun.
Gwen Stefani And Gavin Rossdale
Singer Gwen Stefani wasn’t exactly available when Blake Shelton came into her life on the set of The Voice in 2014. She was actually married to English singer Gavin Rossdale and had been since 2002, and they had three children together. But as Shelton and Lambert’s relationship was getting a bit finicky, so was hers.
In the end, it seemed as though Shelton and Stefani’s relationship grew because they had something in common: divorce from someone they’d been with for a while.
The Divorces Happened Almost Back-To-Back
Stefani and Rossdale wound up getting divorced a year after Shelton and Lambert, in 2016. And while no one knows why the two couples opted to go their separate ways, people speculate and tabloids gossip.
What matters is that after the separations, Shelton and Stefani’s relationship grew into something more. It was obvious they thought of each other as more than friends, especially if you watched their banter on The Voice. The two were goners.
Stefani’s Divorce Was One Of Betrayal
While Shelton and Lambert had their own issues, it seemed as though Stefani and Rossdale had a whole other bag of worms going on in their relationship. Apparently, Rossdale was having an affair with their nanny, someone Stefani trusted.
Feeling betrayed, heartbroken, and insecure in her own home, Stefani wanted nothing more than to cut ties with Rossdale and move on. And that all started with a divorce and getting rid of their Beverly Hills mansion.
Stefani Wanted To Sell Her And Rossdale’s Mansion
Stefani wanted to cut all ties with Rossdale, including the home they shared. A year after their settlement, their 15,018-square-foot Beverly Hills Mansion was put on the market. Unfortunately, it took a few years to sell because of the steep asking price of $35 million.
The ten-bathroom and seven-bedroom monstrosity has sat on the market for years. Finally, in 2019, they were able to gain interest after listing the home at a major discount. They sold it for $21.65 million, and Stefani was able to move on.
Shelton And Stefani In The Beginning
When they first met on the set of The Voice, Shelton and Stefani were going through something very similar: their respective divorces. Because of the commonality, their relationship grew stronger and stronger.
During an interview with Billboard, Shelton explained how their bond grew. “That’s kind of how our friendship and bond started, that day. It went from that to checking in on each other once a week through email…then every day to, ‘Hey, here’s my phone number if you ever want to text.'”
Feelings Began To Blossom
It didn’t take long for the country singer to become infatuated with his beautiful co-host. He opened up to Billboard during an interview about his feelings, saying, “Next thing I know, I wake up and she’s all I care about, and I’m wondering if she feels the same about me.”
From there, it was obvious Stefani started to have mutual feelings. The two began posing on the red carpet together, and not just to promote their The Voice.
Their Support For One Another Was Unmatched
As for Shelton and Stefan’s relationship, it grew and grew. And before fans knew it, the two were releasing love songs about one another and performing stunning duets that had people feeling their love for one another.
In 2016, the two released “Go Ahead and Break My Heart.” Then, a few years later, in 2018, “You Make it Feel Like Christmas” dropped. And, most recently, in 2019, the two singers released their latest duet, called, “Nobody But You.”
They Make An Unlikely But Adorable Duo
According to Shelton, the time he’s spent with Stefani has been one amazing blur. As he told Rolling Stone in 2016, “If you had told me that that’s who I’m gonna end up with, I would have thought you were crazy. But she became my closest ally.”
We don’t blame Shelton for thinking otherwise, of course. Here we have a stunning, edgy singer who fell for a country boy who enjoys wearing jeans and cowboy boots to black-tie events… an unlikely duo is right!
Shelton Says Stefani Saved His Life
Considering both of the singers’ personal lives when they met, from outsiders, it looked like an odd time to be getting together. But, for Shelton, the timing was spot on. He even goes as far as saying Stefani saved his life.
During an interview with Billboard, Shelton said, “Gwen saved my life. Who else on earth could understand going through a high-profile divorce from another musician? You can’t even imagine the similarities in our divorces.”
Stefani Gushed About Shelton, Too
Shelton wasn’t the only one singing his significant other’s praises (pun intended). Stefani had nothing but nice things to say about Shelton while a guest on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon.
During their interview, she said, “Let’s just talk only about Blake because he’s so awesome.” She went on to gush about how she brought him to Disneyland for the first time and how she adores his camo and cowboy wardrobe choices.
Adam Levine Chimed In On Their Love
And it wasn’t just Shelton and Stefani gushing over each other. Another one of The Voice judges, Maroon 5 singer Adam Levine, had a thing or two to say about his best “frenemy’s” relationship.
He said, “I see it every day. I have a pretty unique perspective on it, and it’s real, man. I’m so affectionate and gross with my wife- this is a whole other level of…vomit. They’re so in love it’s disgusting.”
2019 Brought In Stefani’s Kids
While married to Rossdale, Stefani had three sons, Kingston, Zuma, and Apollo, something that was totally public knowledge. But it begged the question: how was Shelton with her three children? Well, the question was answered at the premiere of the animated film UglyDolls in 2019.
If anyone was questioning the seriousness of their relationship, there were “No Doubt[s]” when both Shelton and Stefani were gathered around her three kids on the orange premier carpet.
Ellen DeGeneres Voiced What Everyone Was Thinking
By May of 2019, fans of the two singers, as well as fans of The Voice, were wondering if the two were ever going to get married. Thankfully, Ellen DeGeneres voiced what everyone was dying to know when Shelton went on her talk show.
There, she gifted the country star with a clock adorning his and Stefani’s faces. After accepting the gift, Shelton joking said, “So you’re saying there’s a chance she’s going to ask me to marry her? You see how I flipped it around and put it on her?”
2020 Became The Year Of Rumors
Moving down the timeline of Shelton and Stefani’s relationship, 2020 was the year of numerous marriage rumors. We’re the two engaged? Or were they already secretly married? No one knew. But Shelton had more than one thing to say about the rumors.
During an interview with Country Living, he said, “I love the rumors. Those rumors are great. Anybody that thinks that I’m married to Gwen already, I love it. My God. Who wouldn’t want to be married to Gwen Stefani?”
They’re Actually Trying To Start A Family
Even though they aren’t married quite yet, despite the rumors and Ellen pushing Shelton toward the altar, the two singers are trying to start a family. Although Gwen has three children and is close to 50, she hopes to get pregnant.
They both know the prospect is a long shot, but they’re hoping in vitro fertilization will help. According to a source, the two are “hyper-focused on becoming pregnant.” We can only hope it works out for the two love birds!
They’re Waiting For The Right Time To Say “I Do”
Although fans are ready to see Shelton pop the question, the two are in no rush to be married. First off, Stefani is technically still waiting for her annulment from Rossdale, so she and Shelton were able to wed in a Catholic Church.
But when the 2020 pandemic hit, she began softening to the idea of marrying Shelton in a tinier gathering of close friends and family. Apparently, their time in quarantine together wore her down!
They’re Happy Where They Are In Their Relationship
Of course, that doesn’t mean they’re going to rush into anything. Both Shelton and Stefani are perfectly happy where they are in their relationship, something that is very evident to close friends.
One of their friends said, “They’re still madly in love and beyond inseparable. Blake has wanted to take his time with marriage, but he is absolutely committed to Gwen. They both feel they’ve found their true partner in life and plan to be together forever.”
Lambert Was Still Venting In The Form Of Lyrics
While it seemed like Shelton had moved on seemingly easily, Lambert was still seething over their very public divorce. But, it worked in her favor, in a weird sort of way. Instead of crying her eyes out, Lambert threw herself into her work.
Even years after their divorce, Lambert has been writing song after song about her side of the story and her feelings about her ex’s new relationship. And some of the songs aren’t even trying to hide who they’re about, such as “Got My Name Changed Back.”
Lambert Was Stronger After The Divorce
The thing about her divorce is that it seemed to have made Lambert a bit stronger in who she was. She wasn’t going to take things sitting down anymore. And she was dead set on keeping her newest relationship private.
Honestly, you’d think she would have learned from the divorce and her next two boyfriends! Anderson East was the first boyfriend after Shelton, and after him came Evan Felkner. The workings of those relationships is a bit rocky, to say the least.
Lambert Finally Found Someone!
Lambert seemed to be going from one rebound to the other. She didn’t seem to know what she wanted out of life after her split from Shelton. Was she destined to go from one partner to the next?
Nope! As it turns out, Lambert found someone out of the realm of entertainment. And, learning from her previous public and failed relationships, she was planning on keeping him all to herself. But more on that coming up!
The Rebound That Wasn’t A Rebound
But Lambert wasn’t the only one thinking about rebounds. During an interview with Sunday Today with Willie Geist, Shelton said, “I think if Gwen and I were being honest right now talking about this, I think in the back of our minds, we both kind of thought this is a rebound deal because we’re both coming out of a pretty low spot in our lives and we’re kind of clinging to each other to get through this.”
Well, it doesn’t look like the two are rebounding with one another!
Lambert’s Secret 2020 Wedding
While Shelton was happy and settling down, Lambert finally learned from her mistakes. After calling it quits with Felkner, Lambert started seeing someone who wasn’t even close to in the public eye, an NYPD officer by the name of Brendan McLoughlin.
After dating for some time, Lambert revealed that the two married in a quiet wedding in 2020. Going through a few public breakups, Lambert wanted nothing more than a quiet wedding without the press. And she got it!
Shelton And Stefani Moved In Together
As for Shelton and Stefani, it looks like fans aren’t going to hear wedding bells anytime soon. For right now, they are happy living together in their 13.2 million dollar mansion in Encino, California, in the San Fernando Valley they purchased in August 2020.
The beautiful white home is 13,000-square-foot with a gorgeous black trim. And while no images of inside the home were released to the public, there is a nice photo of their luxurious pool, cabana, and sports court.